Children of Nowadays

 when you try to engage with them they tell you that ,"You don't know what they're going through ", I mean we were once their age group but we never engaged in such careless, meaningless acts. Their parents are also busy with hubbly and alcohol every weekend. They are here telling us we know nothing about raising a teenager when they are the ones not at home to raise their children. This thing starts at home, you will find parents taking pictures with alcohol in front of the kids and the kids think it's cool. Shame on Africa, while those so called whites are focusing on studies for the future leadership. 

Problem started when they removed corporal punishment from schools and giving this kids more right even in their homes. We need to understand that we are black and our problems need a black solution not this thing of white people and rights. Until then I dnt see anything changing, instead it's going to be worse every day. Parents must be able to discipline their kids anyhow without government intervention. Their parents are also busy with hubbly and alcohol every weekend. They are here telling us we know nothing about raising a teenager when they are the ones not at home to raise their children.

South Africa is not only confronted by lack of (basic) service delivery and high unemployment rate but alcohol and drug abuse. The use and abuse of drugs and alcohol by teens is very common nowadays and have some serious consequences. #enyobenitarven tragedy is such an example. Moral degeneration (or decay) is the biggest threat to South Africa. This is serious moral degeneration. Sad also because our system is a largest contributing factor with these messed up rights.

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Sex-Drive Killers Slideshow

 

Sex-Drive Killer: Stress

1/13

Some people do many things well when they're stressed. Feeling sexy usually isn't one of them. Stress at work, home, or in relationships can happen to anyone. Learning how to handle it in a healthy way really helps. You can do a lot of it yourself, and a counselor or doctor can also help.

Sex-Drive Killer: Partner Problems

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Problems with your partner are among the top sex-drive killers. For women, feeling close is a major part of desire. For both sexes, watch for fallout from fights, poor communication, feeling betrayed, or other trust issues. If it's tricky to get back on track, reach out to a couples counselor.

Sex-Drive Killer: Alcohol

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A drink may make you feel more open to sex. But too much alcohol can numb your sex drive. Being drunk can also be a turn-off for your partner. If you have trouble drinking less, seek help.

Sex-Drive Killer: Too Little Sleep

4/13

If your sexual get-up-and-go is gone, maybe you're not getting enough sleep. Do you go to bed too late or rise too early? Do you have a sleep problem like trouble falling or staying asleep, or a condition such as sleep apnea? Anything that messes with a good night's rest can mess with sex. Fatigue saps sexy feelings. Work on your sleep habits, and if that doesn't help, talk to your doctor.

Sex-Drive Killer: Having Kids

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You don't lose your sex drive once you're a parent. However, you do lose some time to be close with kids under foot. Hire a babysitter to nurture some time to be partners as well as parents. New baby? Try sex during baby's nap time.

Sex-Drive Killer: Medication

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Some drugs can turn down desire. They include some of these types of medications:

• Antidepressants
• Blood pressure medications
• Birth control pills (some studies show a link; others don't)
• Chemotherapy
• Anti-HIV drugs
• Finasteride

Switching drugs or dosages may help -- ask your doctor about that and never stop taking any medicine on your own. Tell your doctor, too, if  your sex drive stalls soon after you start taking a new drug.

Sex Drive Killer: Poor Body Image

7/13

Feeling sexy is easier if you like how you look. Work on accepting your body as it is today, even if you're working to get in shape. Feeling good about yourself can put you in the mood. If your partner has low esteem, assure them that they're sexy.

Sex-Drive Killer: Obesity

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When you're overweight or obese, desire often dims. It could be that you don't enjoy sex, can't perform like you want to, or are held back by low self-esteem. Working on how you feel about yourself, with a counselor if needed, may make a big difference.

Sex-Drive Killer: Erection Problems

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Men with ED (erectile dysfunction) often worry about how they will be able to perform sexually, and that worry can drain their desire. ED can be treated, and couples can also work to keep it from affecting their relationship.

Sex-Drive Killer: Low T

10/13

The "T" hormone, testosterone, fuels sex drive. As men age, their T levels may drop a bit. Not all lose the desire for sex as this happens, but some do. Many other things -- from relationships to weight -- also affect a man's sex drive and testosterone levels, so there's not a one-size-fits-all answer for every man.

Sex-Drive Killer: Depression

11/13

Being depressed can shut off pleasure in many things, including sex. That's one of many reasons to get help. If your treatment involves medication, tell your doctor if your sex drive is low, since some (but not all) depression drugs lower sex drive. Talk about it with your therapist, too.  

Sex-Drive Killer: Menopause

12/13

For many women, sex drive dims around menopause. That's partly about symptoms such as vaginal dryness and pain during sex. But every woman is different, and it's possible to have a great sex life after menopause by tending to your relationship, self esteem, and overall health.

Sex-Drive Killer: Lack of Closeness

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Sex without feeling close can slay desire. Intimacy is more than just sex. If your sex life is idling, try spending more non-sexual time together, just the two of you. Talk, snuggle, trade massages. Find ways to express love without having sex. Getting closer can rebuild your sex drive.

3 Secrets for a Steamier Sex Life

 Better sex through diet and exercise? You bet. Eating the right kinds of foods and getting plenty of muscle-strengthening exercise is just the prescription for a healthier sex life. A dash of positive attitude ties it all together: You have to believe you're hot if you want to make things sizzle in the bedroom. Being sexy and self-confident is just a state of mind.

Attitude Is Everything

Believe in yourself. Reward your successful weight loss with an alluring outfit or lingerie that showcases your new figure -- even if you're still far from your goal. If you feel good about your body, that feeling is communicated loud and clear to your sweetheart.

We all would love to have the bodies of supermodels, but let's be realistic: Your main squeeze is loving the new you and your renewed sense of well-being -- a positive byproduct of your diet and exercise routine!

A healthy diet, regular exercise, and a positive attitude are only the beginning. It also helps to get plenty of sleep, quit smoking, and control the stress in your life. Not only will you look better, you'll feel good about yourself -- a real boost in the between-the-sheets department.

The Secret to Sexual Prowess

Both men and women can get great results if they follow the advice from Lynn Fischer's book, The Better Sex Diet. The author suggests that if you eat a heart-healthy diet, the benefits to your heart will improve the blood flow to other organs in the body. And increasing the blood flow to sexual organs will increase desire and function.

The theory is simple. Good health is an integral part of good sex, and eating healthfully and exercising regularly is the pathway to good health.

The book is based on Dean Ornish's research on reversing heart disease with a very low-fat, almost vegetarian, diet. Fischer recommends eating a low-fat diet with lots of fiber, grains, fruits, nuts, vegetables, and lean sources of dairy and protein. No mystery here, just creative packaging that reiterates the message that a healthy diet goes a long way toward a satisfying lifestyle.

Shake It

Getting regular physical activity is an easy way to boost your sexual prowess. "Adults who exercise regularly not only have increased levels of desire, but also enhanced ability to perform sexually and greater sexual satisfaction," says Cedric Bryant, PhD, chief exercise physiologist for the American Council on Exercise.

To strengthen your heart and help build endurance, add a few high-intensity bouts to your fitness routine. For example, increase the incline on the treadmill, or increase the speed, for a few minutes at a time during your workout.

Strength training is also a good idea, to build shapely muscle and to keep your body strong enough to handle all your day-to-day activities (including sex).

One exercise for women is the Kegel -- the same exercise gynecologists recommend to keep the pelvic floor strong during pregnancy. These muscles can increase pleasure sensations during sex. They're the same muscles you use to stop the flow of urine when you're using the bathroom. Just practice tightening them whenever you think about it during the day.

Staying fit works wonders for so many parts of the body. With as little as 30 minutes a day of regular exercise, you will burn calories, build muscle, and feel more confident, more vivacious, and virile for Valentine's Day and every day thereafter!

Recharge and Energize

A good night's sleep goes a long way toward ensuring that you have enough energy for a roll in the hay. It's hard to be in the mood for love when you are exhausted!

It's also important to have the right frame of mind. So leave your troubles behind, forget about work -- unwind and experience the pleasure of your partner. A healthy sex life needs to be a priority. Take a hot bath, a quiet walk, or whatever it takes to help you relax.

If you drink alcohol, do so in moderation. It is no secret that excessive alcohol can dampen your sexual energy. Plan ahead, and limit your consumption to one or two drinks before an evening of romance.

Remember, a lifestyle that's healthy for you overall will be healthy for your sex life -- period. Boost your sexual potency naturally with a healthy diet, lots of physical activity, and an attitude that screams, "I'm worth it!"

Sexual Problems in Women

 Sexual dysfunction is a common problem among women. Almost half of all women have persistent problems with sex, such as little or no sex drive, trouble reaching an orgasm, or pain during intercourse. Satisfying sex involves your body, mind, health, beliefs, and your feelings toward your partner, among other factors. Here are some possible causes behind problems in your sex life.

Medical or Physical Conditions

Heart disease, diabetes, thyroid disease, nerve conditions such as multiple sclerosis, and even simple fatigue can make sex uncomfortable or painful. They can make it hard for you to get aroused or climax during sex.

Scarring from surgery or radiation treatment in your vaginal opening or in other parts of your genital area also can change your sexual experience. So can infections such as genital herpes.

Other possible causes include hormonal imbalance or physical changes related to:

• Pregnancy (you may have sex less often or find it uncomfortable, especially during the third trimester)
• Childbirth (your genitals may be less sensitive, you may have had a difficult delivery)
• Breastfeeding (low estrogen levels may lead to vaginal dryness, you may lack energy for sex)
• Menopause (vaginal dryness, lack of libido)

Mental and Emotional Issues

The right mood and a healthy, respectful connection with your partner play an important role in sexual intimacy. But there may be factors that leave you feeling self-conscious, fearful, or uninterested. Reasons may include:

• Depression
• Anxiety
• Stress
• Past sexual abuse
• Low self-esteem

Medications, Drugs, and Alcohol

Drinking can make orgasm longer to achieve or feel less intense. Tobacco smoking and long-term use of heroin and other illegal drugs also can lead to sexual problems.

Some medications can make sex less pleasurable, dampen sex drive, or cause vaginal discomfort. Types of medications include:

• High blood pressure drugs
• Antidepressants
• Antipsychotic medications
• Epilepsy drugs
• Certain cancer drugs
• Medication for urinary tract infection
• Steroids

Treatments and Other Help

See your doctor right away if you suddenly have pain or unusual syptoms during sex, like a headache, or if you think you’ve been exposed to a sexually transmitted disease. 

For other kinds of sexual dysfunction, a range of therapies can help. Your doctor will ask about your symptoms, check your health, order blood screens or other tests, and rule out other possible causes.

Medical treatments may include:

• Drugs to raise low libido (desire for sex)
• Kegel exercises to strengthen pelvic muscles to help achieve better orgasm
• Anti-inflammatory drugs to take before intercourse to lower pain

Other advice to improve your intimate experience may include:

• More open communication between you and your partner,
• Making time for sex
• Improving intimacy with your partner
• Healthy habits, such as minimizing alcohol, getting exercise and eating a healthy diet
• Therapy or counseling to help you manage stress or anxiety, or work through feelings of fear or shame in regards to sex
• Vaginal lubricant for dryness or lessen pain during sex
• Vibrators and other tools to enhance arousal
• Techniques on how to reduce distractions and be more present during sex

Sticky Sex Situations

 Awkward sexual moments don’t end with your teen years. Even the most secure adults may find themselves tongue-tied or at a loss for what to do sometimes.

Here are six common scenes that may fluster you (or someone else), and graceful ways to get out of them.

Caught in the Act

Getting caught during a delicate moment, whether you’re solo or with a partner, is common.

“It’s best to address your embarrassment head-on,” says Carole Lieberman, MD, a psychiatrist in Beverly Hills. A light response can work wonders -- something like, “Oh, I thought I was going to have some private time here,” or, “We thought we were alone.”

Get caught by your kids? “Young children, in particular, may interpret sexual situations as Mommy and Daddy fighting, so it’s important to quickly let your child know that you are playing,” says Lieberman. Older children are more clued into what’s going on and respond better to, "We were showing our love for each other, and you'll understand better when you grow up.”

Your Partner Has a Fetish

If your partner makes a freaky request, ask yourself: Are you ashamed to do it? Is it unsafe? If the answer is no to both, “it’s worthwhile to be open-minded and willing to try it,” Lieberman says.

Before you start, discuss what it is you don’t like about the idea, and consider having a "safe word" that lets your partner know it’s time to stop. Knowing you can call a halt when you want to may even help you enjoy it.

You Can’t Get Aroused

These issues are normal. If you don’t make a fuss about them, chances are, your partner won’t either.

“Hormonal changes and even cycle changes can cause a lack of vaginal moisture in women. It’s incredibly helpful to have a lubricant on hand,” says Lauren Streicher, MD. She's a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University. Streicher says silicone-based products last longer than water-based versions (and as a result, require fewer “breaks” during sex).

Men may lose their erection during or after putting on a condom. Streicher’s advice? “Use a female condom instead. It offers protection from STDs, is made from a very, very thin, lubricated material that doesn’t decrease sensation, and in most cases, eliminates erection problems.”

If problems don’t stop, though, seek a doctor’s help.

Hooking Up With a Co-Worker

One in four people say they’ve had a fling with a work colleague. Whether it’s a one-night stand or the start of something serious, your other co-workers may figure it out.

“Be professional at the office, because you want to avoid the appearance of favoritism,” says Amy Nicole Salvaggio, PhD. She's an associate professor of psychology at the University of New Haven who studies workplace romance. If things between you sour, she says, “don’t unload your emotions on other co-workers. The degree to which you [stay calm] will go a long way toward minimizing damage to your career or reputation.”

It’s That Time of the Month

Period sex can be messy, so ask your partner if they're comfortable with that, Streicher says.

“If you want to go for it, there’s no need to feel ashamed about bringing it up,” says Amber Madison, a New York City-based relationship therapist. “Say, 'I would love to have sex with you every day of the month. Would you like to try having sex during my/your period?' Chances are, your partner will say yes.”

Sex With Your Ex

Proceed with caution. “It’s rarely ‘just sex,’ as people often tell themselves,” Lieberman says. “In most cases, one partner is hoping to get back together, while the other is enjoying the comfort of having sex with a familiar person. Someone is bound to get hurt.”

Have a frank talk with your ex before you slip between the sheets.

Regrets after you’ve sealed the deal? Honesty is the best policy, Madison says, provided you’re kind about it. (“I had a wonderful time but don’t want to rekindle our relationship.”)

BENEFITS OF SALT AND ASH(Protect your family from enemies)

There are many spiritual Powers and benefits of salt. With so many known and unknown enemies, you need to protect yourself and your entire family from evil people. Writing because you heard and writing from your experience are two different things, today I am writing this from my experience because I want to let people know the worth of the gift that God has given Us (Salt). I was afraid of packing into our new house because of my husband's evil relatives but at a point, I remembered what a man of God who was also a close family friend told me about salt and it's spiritual Powers but my fear was still there.

I also had a Yoruba traditionalist friend who knows a lot about these things and she encouraged me to be fearless and to pack into my new house instead of paying rent yearly. I took the advice and we relocated to our home, on getting there, I promised myself to be strong and to fight for my family. The first thing I did was to Pray, neutralize and purify our entire compound with salt. Once in a while I sprinkle salt around my compound to neutralize any bad thing around and ever since we packed into our home, I built my confidence and I feared nothing because fear is the biggest enemy of man. So today, I want you to know that you can protect your family without running from one prayer house to another. Take charge of your life and your enemies will run for you instead of you running for them. How long shall you run for them? No more for Lord is your strength!

SPIRITUAL BENEFITS OF SALT:

1. Salt is a purifier

2. It cleanses and cures

3. It is used for neutralizing

4. It is used for protection and lots more

HOW TO USE SALT :

1. When you feel uneasy or when you can't explain how you're feeling but you feel bad OR when you are surrounded by evil people or enemies, add a little salt to your bathing water, when bathing to protect yourself and your family from evil attacks. Do this once in a while.

2. Place salt in a little piece of white cloth and sew or tie tightly, put it inside your right shoe when you're travelling or going to a place where your enemies are present OR If it is necessary for you to go where you may not trust, for safety and for protection.

3. Mix salt and blue together and sprinkle in the four corners of your house to ward off bad dreams and bad spirit.

4. Sprinkle salt in the corners of your house and your compound to destroy any JUJU or poison evil people has kept for you.

5. Pray with some salt mixed with sand and a little ash powder in your palm. Call out the Names of your enemies. Pray for their downfall, now blow the salt mixture into the air. Watch and see how they'll run from you and be conquered.

""And the multitude of thine shall be scattered like small dust and the multitude of the terrible ones as chaff""( Isaiah 29:5)

Two babies in Virginia are going viral because they're cousins . . . and also twin Brothers.

 They've got the same DNA, because both sets of parents are IDENTICAL TWINS. Their moms are identical and married two identical twin brothers. So in addition to being cousins, the two babies are also "genetic brothers". If they took a DNA test, it would say they're siblings, even though they're not. Their parents met in 2017 at a festival for twins, and got married a year later. Now they all live together in the same house.

Once they are identical twins they share the same DNA and in this case both mothers and fathers are twins identical twins hence they share the same DNA so those boys are born to separate parents because both females share the same meaning and both males share the same DNA if the children should get mixed up and DNA should prove who's child it is it will be impossible because both children will get the same results. Though it looks beautiful I wouldn't do that but to each man is own.

5 AFRICAN CELEBRITIES WHO ARE MOST CURVY (2022)

 

 This rundown is gathered from a choice of performers, Actresses, socialites, On Air Personalities (OAP) and models.

These women are not simply surprising, they're dazzling in each sense. Checkout the rundown of the best 15 most stunning African famous people.

Top 15 Most Curvy Celebrities In South Africa (2021)

Positioned in no specific request, the women beneath are the most awe-inspiring big names in Africa.

1. Princess Shyngle (Gambia)

most surprising VIP in Africa

Shyngle is a Gambian entertainer situated in Ghana who is viewed as one of the most shapely women in the Ghanaian film industry. After some time, she has turned into a s*x image as her male fans develop hugely via online entertainment.

2. Corazon Kwamboka (Kenya)

most surprising VIP in Africa

Top 15 Most Curvy Celebrities In Africa

Corazon Kwamboka additionally made this rundown of top 15 stunning big names in Africa. She is a Kenyan socialite, model, an entreprenuer and a legal counselor. She rose to distinction after her semi-bare photographs started doing adjusts on the web.

3. Vera Sidika (Kenya)

Top 20 Most thrilling VIPs in Africa

Vera Sidika, otherwise called Vee Beiby, is a Kenyan TV and online entertainment character, VIP, video lady, business person and socialite. Sidika has been casted a ballot as one of Africa's and East Africa's top video ladies. She is viewed as one of Kenya's most dubious ladies because of her exceptional and luxurious way of life and special suppositions about existence overall.

4. Leniency Johnson (Nigeria)

Rundown of the most thrilling VIPs in AfricaActress Mercy Johnson has one of the most outstanding stunning figures in Nollywood. She is full figured and flaunts her resources both in films and on honorary pathway. Her well etched hips have given her the certainty and confidence to take on provocative jobs.

5. Moesha Boduong (Ghana)

The Ghanaian Model and entertainer who is partial to displaying her immense resources via virtual entertainment is a magnificent incredible sight.